...because I've been getting alot of hate mail lately, calling me an elitist and accusing me of not having any compassion for the plight of immigrants.
I don't usually like posting alot of personal information about myself, but after talking to my wife, she's advised me to tell you our story. Maybe it will give you a better insight into WHY I get so frustrated about the immigration problem.

I met my lovely wife in July 2002, while I was stationed in Germany. I knew she was the one for me. She is the most incredible person I have ever had the privilege to know. Anyway, I proposed to her, and we decided to get married. Because I wanted to marry her in Texas, we decided to submit the paperwork for a K-1 Visa, more commonly known as a "Sweetheart Visa". My wife was really bummed to have to leave everything she knew, and her family, behind in Germany. She understood, however, that I wouldn't be able to stay in Germany forever. In the end, love won her over, and I convinced her to move to the US with me. We gathered up all the information, filled out the paperwork, and began the long wait. We filed for the Visa in December 2002. After a few months of medical examinations and consulate visits (for interviews and such), her Visa was granted, and we packed up to move back to the US and prepared for our wedding. We were married on October 18, 2003 in South Texas.
My wife filed her Adjustment of Status and Work Authorization soon after, literally the first working day after we were married (on my suggestion).
Soon afterwards, I recieved orders to deploy to Iraq in support of Operation Iraqi Freedom. Admittedly, we had a pretty sweet set-up, because she was able to stay at my parent's place while I was deployed. While I was traveling to Baghdad, my wife was submitting resumes (she's a trained business accountant) and conducting interviews. Ninety days after she filed, my wife recieved her work authorization (and she literally started working the very next day). Since she started working, she paid federal income taxes, she paid Social Secutity taxes, everything you and I do as productive memebers of society. She was a legal resident of the United States, working and paying taxes. Two years to the day that we filed the very first piece of paper for her K-1 visa, my wife was the proud recipient of a Green Card. In the entire time, she never used any government assistance (not even job placement services), she never took anything from anyone. Not one single taxpayer, except for me, paid a dime for my wife to exist in the United States.
Yeah, it cost a decent amount of money (for filing fees), and alot of waiting and proofreading, but we did
everything by the book. We dotted every "i" and crossed every "t".
So here is my question: if my wife can do it, why can't the people that jump the border? Last I checked, we had an embassy and consulates in Mexico; just like they do in Germany. You can file for your visa there, so why don't they (the border jumpers)?
These people are willing to walk for days through the desert, go without food and water (boo hoo), or pay huge sums of money to be smuggled across the border, but if they would have just paid the fees and submitted the paperwork, it would have cost
much, much less.
If these people are really that stupid, then why in the HELL should we take them in?
Now, do you have an idea of why these illegal immigrants piss me off? Here is a hardworking, skilled young woman who did everything the
right way: paid her dues, and put up with the paperwork shuffle. Meanwhile, some unskilled schmuck from Guadalajara just frickin' jumps a fence or swims a river. That's crazy.
Wanna know something that pisses me off even more than that? The tax dollars that my wife
(a legal immigrant), pays,
in all likelihood go to pay for the health and welfare that a criminal that illegally invaded our country gets from our government to survive. Meanwhile, this young woman made it on her
OWN.
Sorry for my language, but in
my eyes, that's
bullshit.